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If you’re a businessman whose been described as a high achiever but feels like certain struggles are holding you back, I’m the counselor for you. Even with success, you may still find yourself dealing with anger, depression, anxiety, broken relationships, and addictions (pornography/substances). I help men of all ages become a person of honor and character.

Affectionately known as “The Angry Boy Whisperer” I enjoy spending time helping families in conflict. If you have a son who is angry at the world with behavioral issues at home and at school, they are angry for a reason. Often parents have tried everything and things have gotten worse despite their best efforts. I help parents change the course of the family back to their original family vision while teaching kids to become respectful, responsible, and fun to be around. 

If you accept the status quo, you’ll find yourself wasting years by going through the same vicious cycle, only to discover you’re just barely keeping your head above water. Don’t miss the opportunity to get real traction with your effort! I’m here to help you destress and develop the tools you need to live the life you desire. 

I also provide Biofeedback, and Neurofeedback to help take the guesswork out of therapy while helping you to see concrete changes in your emotional and mental health. These techniques use specialized equipment to monitor and change your responses related to various mental health issues.

Reach out today and I’ll help you find out-of-the-box solutions to the issues that are holding you back!

Special Focus: Biofeedback & Neurofeedback

Client Focus: Men, kids (9+), families


Masters in clinical counseling: Western Seminary

Bachelor of Arts in psychology: William Jewell College

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A Little About Me...

I am passionate about health—to the point of being boisterous—and will find any way to reach my goals! I enjoy hiking, rock climbing, football, golfing, jujitsu, and swing dancing. I love exploring the beauty of the Pacific Northwest with my wife, friends, family, and my dog Hank.

Contact to Schedule An Appointment


Phone: 360.207.9218

About : About Me

Services & Fees 

Rates may vary for counseling services based on your insurance and payment preferences. For more information on insurance policies and payment options, see here. Otherwise, feel free to reach out and we'll make sure all of your questions get answered.

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Individual Counseling

Individual Counseling is where people come to solve problems, grow, and change their lives in the direction that they think is best for them and their families. When people are stuck and they don't know how to stop certain behaviors, counseling can provide the skills they need to get them where they want to go in life.

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Family Counseling

Family Counseling is where the parents and kids come together to talk through ongoing problems in the household and how to have more fun and peace in the home. The counselor sits down with everyone at once and identifies how everyone may or may not be contributing to these goals.

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Continuous Performance Test ADD/ADHD Assessment

$210 for 90 minutes with previous consultation

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In-Office Neurofeedback

$140 - Consultation

$200 – Intake Assessment 

$160 – Neurofeedback Session

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Myndlift Home Neurofeedback Units

($250 non-refundable per month)

$700 base price per household

$100 each additional user

Insurance is accepted for all counseling services and not accepted for Neurofeedback. Now accepting crypto currency.
Accepted Insurance Providers:
  • Pacific Source
  • First Choice
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